So you’ve been raving about your hot beau, spouse or date like she’s the ONE you’ve waited all your life for. Congratulations! We're happy your love life isn't lost in the abyss. But wait, a relationship is a two way street. 50-50. Which means, if you want a rampant sex life for real, there has to be give and take, with consent!

Did you know most relationships fail because of lack of intimacy between couples? Sex and sexual acts not conducive, especially to women, is one big reason. So don’t be a statistic for future would-be couples to learn from. Get your act between the sheets with her right, and she’ll be yours forever.

Here are 12 things most women wouldn’t want in bed, not unless they ask you. Don’t force it on them, just because you are a man – a NO means NO. Respect it and she’ll do anything else for you!

1. Thou shalt not move down right away.

Start from her lips and then head down south – that’s how she likes it. In doing so, you would make her feel special. Women like it slow and long; the sex that is!

2. Thou shalt not blow into thy lady’s ears always.

Women fancy the hot breath of their men on the nape of the neck more than the ears. Sometimes the ear lobe, but not ALWAYS. She doesn’t want to turn deaf, that’s not why she’s with you!

3. Thou shalt respectfully cuddle her breasts.

Hello boys and men, caress and touch if you want. Squeezing too much and too hard is a NO-NO.

Remember, they are breasts. They might be 'fun bags' to you, but they're just a lumpy, mass of flesh to her. If she doesn’t like it wild and kinky, quit the ‘stress-buster’ act. And yes, no nibbling and chewing her breasts like animals would. Twiddling them without her permission is unwanted to say the least.

4. Thou shalt not pound and thrust too hard or too much.

Tonight's not the last night to pump it up. Be good today, you'll have many more nights. The act of penetration is sacred; thrusting therefore should be pleasurable for both. You do not have to emulate Peter North in porn videos - porn is MAKE BELIEF, your girl is not!

5. Thou shalt hold on to the load shooting.

Many men suffer from pre-ejaculation and fire the gun the moment it's touched. Tough luck guys, go see the doctor. Like really fast.

Others, who take way to long to cum, and are thrusting machines - one word for that from us girls – BORING! Yes, women do crave for more intimacy and sex, just as men do, but a vagina isn’t a NUMB ORGAN!

6. Thou shalt not force her on the ‘job’.

Pushing her head down under and with force to perform an act you’ve seen or your friends raved about is what SHE HATES. Are you trying to shut an overloaded wheelie? If she desires it, she would do it. Would you like a role-reversal to teach you why NOT to do the pushing of the head?

7. Thou shalt not force a facial on her.

Surprising her with a nasty shot, on her face that too, ill-mannered and uncalled for. When you are about to shoot, inform your partner and she’d be ready.

8. Thou shalt not force her into positions she doesn’t want.

Once again, your fantasies and hers aren’t the same. No forcing her into the DOGGY if she likes only the MISSIONARY. She isn’t a piece or an object. Stop saying, "get into that position like Jenna Jameson" or reminding her how Priya Rai did it. Your girl is no gymnast!

9. Thou shalt not force gag and suffocate your princess.

Need we say more - this is downright rude!

10. Thou shalt do your homework.

First time sex with her? Do your homework. Read what expert sexologists, online and through reputed websites, have to say about finding a woman’s G-spot or clitoris. Don’t be a bore finding them when action is much needed.

11. Thou shalt not force anal sex.

Not all women like it, and even if she does – use lube. The act can be painful, and the anal rim is never naturally moist - lube is the answer.

12. Thou shalt not be dirty.

Flatulence, cock-cheese, unclean anal sex - you may crave for that, she doesn’t. While courting her, sheepishly tell her about the ‘fantasies you’ve read online’ – learn from her reactions, and then go ahead with ‘dirty sex’; or else, NO!

The Ten Commandments on how to not make her unhappy in bed should take you a long way. Come on boys, if she doesn’t like it, don't force it. Along with lust, sex is also an act of love.